• radicalautonomy@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    It’s a much bigger red flag if they hate everyone they’ve ever broken up with.

    “And what’s the common thread here?”

    I find it very promising when someone I date, when they reflect on a past relationship, is willing to admit the mistakes they made which led to the breakup and highlight the positive steps they’ve taken to rectify those shortcomings to become a better person and not cause future partners the same hurt. Very sexy, that.

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      6 months ago

      Exactly. There’s a big difference between recognizing mistakes and projecting all failures on the other person.