• Ulrich@feddit.orgEnglish
    123·
    5 months ago

    monolithic social media

    I…don’t know what that means?

    Lemmy is optimal for chatting with random people. If I want to share personal things, I prefer to do that with people I actually know.

    • Flamekebab@piefed.socialEnglish
      7·
      5 months ago

      Monolithic as in Twitter, Reddit, Facebook - platforms that do not federate.

      • Ulrich@feddit.orgEnglish
        64·
        5 months ago

        Is that a normal metric for monolithic social media?

        Maybe not for you. For me, I use social media as a way to sew and cultivate personal relationships. Someone I know posts something interesting and I might pick up the phone and call them and talk about it or we discuss it the next time we see each other. Or maybe there’s a local event that someone shares and looks fun and I ask to join them.

        • Flamekebab@piefed.socialEnglish
          5·
          5 months ago

          That sounds lovely but it’s not been my experience of using social media (except Facebook). I’m not suggesting my experience is normal, or that yours is. I genuinely don’t know.

          • Ulrich@feddit.orgEnglish
            51·
            5 months ago

            I couldn’t care less about what’s happening in the lives of celebrities or companies, or the unsupported political opinions of random strangers, but I guess I’m a weirdo in that way.

            • Flamekebab@piefed.socialEnglish
              2·
              5 months ago

              I tend to use things like Pixelfed to find people interested in the same hobbies. Mastodon I use more for general nerding out.

              I wasn’t intending to criticise your use-case. I don’t know what normal usage patterns look like.

              • Ulrich@feddit.orgEnglish
                31·
                5 months ago

                Yeah I wasn’t trying to accuse you of that, just pointing out why I don’t care much for these types of platforms in general.

        • small44@lemmy.worldBannedEnglish
          21·
          5 months ago

          Almost all social apps are about algorithmic feed suggesting content from people you don’t know. Facebook is one of the few app that are still about personal connection. I can’t remember a single person i interacted with usernames on apps like lemmy