IMAP is the protocol you probably want.

I’m quite happy with “Mail In A Box” as a platform for hosting mail locally with clients.

There are companies that will do inbound spam filtering and outbound mail relaying to ensure high reputation for outgoing main also. I have clients on duocircle but they’re grandfathered in on reasonably priced plans (the new plans are probably a little expensive for self hosted home mail)

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POPs has a place as a protocol, even today. IMAPs is the norm but the right job needs the right tool.

MAPI is trash.

POP needs to die a painful death, in the year 2026 when you have multiple devices POP is not the answer, IMAP is the way. Sure you can self host your own email, but you will either need a static IP at home or a VPS with a static IP, than you need to make sure either one is cool with you hosting your email through there. You will need more than a week to figure things out and by the end of the week you will have pulled out all of your hair, I stopped trying going into a few days!

My suggestion however is to get someone else to host your email, the company that hosts my domain name and my VPS also hosts my email. I think I got 4 addresses with them but they have a wildcard option so that I can have infinite email address; so I can block things if they get spammy, I no longer want to see them, I no longer use their services, or I want a longer free trial which I may have done 2 or 3 times.

I did this a few years back and chose to host, for now, with migadu. They have imap, pop, and a web interface. I use POP myself, because I prefer to house my data.

Client-wise, I use mutt and download messages with mpop, which is a snap to compile if your distro doesn’t have a package.

I have no complaints. This setup is flexible and simple.

POP isn’t sync; pop downloads all the messages locally and you tell the server what to do with them once they’re downloaded.

The result is that you have your messages on your device. But when you go to another device, it’s a different set of messages with different read status.

Unless something has changed, that’s how it worked last time I used POP and that’s why everyone used IMAP now that there’s multiple devices (phones, laptops) in play.

You’re right about self hosting email; it’s a pain.

What about JMAP, guys? Is that cool?

You can do what you want with IMAP too.

I use isync, it’s a CLI tool that can sync between IMAP accounts or between IMAP and local plain storage and it has the option to delete messages over a certain age after it copies them.

Is there a set up where some remote service handles email exchange, and you just sync with it

Any regular email provider can do this as long as it offers IMAP. I use email clients with my provider’s IMAP but I also use isync on the server to periodically pull all email locally and delete messages older than 30 days. I’ve also installed a local private IMAP server and a private webmail client on top of that private IMAP, which I use to search through old emails.

This way I normally use the “live” mailbox with my PC/mobile devices, and use the private webmail when I need to search for anything over 30 days old.

What I do is not “selfhosted email”, technically speaking, because I rely on the live IMAP and SMTP from a provider. But I can switch provider at any time because all my email is @ my custom domains, so I can simply point my DNS to another provider and update my apps to use the new provider’s IMAP/SMTP server.

Pop is download only (and optionally delete on server when downloaded), IMAP is sync so read states, moves, deletes, etc., will sync to the server and between all clients.

But both exist still, just most email providers want you to leave your email on their servers so they can charge you for storage, scan it for advertising, etc., and most people want the state to sync across devices, so a lot of places just don’t implement it anymore and just allow either web-only or IMAP-only (usually paid since they don’t get to show you ads).

And yes you can set up a local software to download email from another server offering POP or IMAP and then either use a client application or self hosted web application to view them. This is not too common so it might be harder to find instructions, but it’s doable.

Which part are you concerned with. The biggest issue with email servers is trust. Many companies will refuse to connect to your SMTP server to send you emails or reject your emails your SMTP server is sending to them if you aren’t on a whitelist or if your IP address has been used for spamming in the past and it’s on a black list. The easiest way to get around this is to subscribe to an SMTP proxy service.

The other issue you may find will happen no matter if you selfhost or not. When using a custom domain, some servers have whitelists of domains in addition to IP addresses and if you aren’t on it they will silently reject emails you send or that they were supposed to send to you. I have a couple of places (health care and financial companies mostly) who do this, so I have to use gmail, which ironically means the email is less secure, especially with Google’s recent changes in policy about reading your emails.

Yes, but IMAP is more common. I’ve been using Maddy for years, and it’s a fairly low-effort solution.

The fussy part in the modern era is DNS setup to ensure other providers accept mail from you, but that’s a one-time step.

POP and IMAP are still alive.

The difficulty of self hosting your own email is high, but if you aim to do it, i would recommend Stalwart for self hosting. POP is not what you want as other people are saying. There is also a newer protocal to IMAP called JMAP.

Some things to consider are your inbound and outbound mail paths.

For incoming: Do you have a VPS to be your entry point? Or do you plan to port forward (assuming you even can given the prevalence of CGNAT)? There is also a way to teach a web worker like the kind cloudflare let’s you use for free to break the email down and POST it to a listener in your server across a tunnel and the listener can put it back together into an email at your server and drop it off. That being the only way I have found to get inbound mail behind a double NAT (CGNAT) without a VPS.

For outbound, if you send stuff to major SMTP providers from a residential IP they will block it or mark as spam pretty heavily. You may want to consider a relay to make sure people actually see what you send. Brevo has a free tier, SMTP2Go is solid. There are others as well.

There are other considerations like how will the end user interact with the mail server? I host a Bulwark instance and really love what they are doing with the project, but there are quite a few options for that.

If you end up giving it a go, good luck, and know that it is possible!

You can use imapsync to keep a local synced copy your email in maildir format. That, along with a domain you own, solves the “I own my own email sycned to my server” problem pretty much completely. Switching email providers is just syncing to the new server (which imapsync supports) and updating your MX records on your domain.

Some email clients (like aerc) can just operate on the maildir directly. That’s what I do, but there are lots of ways to do this.

One option is to just keep using your email client the way you are now talking directly to your mailserver, and just rely on the imapsync side to be your owned backup/migration path.

Alternatively you can run your own local IMAP or POP server like Dovecot backed by the local maildir. So that’s imapsync -> dovecot -> thunderbird (or similar). It’s a little more software to set up, but once it’s set up it should be very reliable and gives you total control over what email client you use and full ownership of your data.

You can have a hosted e-mail system with your own domain, many service providers will do this. They would have the storage, archive, etc. on their servers. Access would be a web client, e-mail client of your choice, or a bridge demon. Option 2 is a hosted vertual server, so your self hosting but renting a VM server on a providers data center, they take care of the hardware, power, backup (sometimes depending on service), etc. You would set up your OS and e-mail services.

I use a combo of this, I have a service with my own domain and point my MX records there, I use a bridge and a sctipt to pull backups and store them locally but use their email clients for mobile and Thunderbird on PCs.

Edit: FWIW I’ve been using Proton (paid version) for this but will be moving to hosted virtual server at some point, when I get a minute to migrate. I expect the cost to be about the same

Is there a set up where some remote service handles email exchange, and you just sync with it eg through POP style interfaces?

Yup, that’s signing up for a email provider. I wouldn’t call that self hosting since you’re just referring to email client software on your end to store the emails that are being synchronized at the email provider’s hosted server(s).

IMAP is sync so that might be what you meant. POP is even older but that’s for downloading only. And SMTP is for sending.

Those all still exist, most paid email providers still offer them just make sure to check before signing up. It’s harder to find that with free email providers, they usually disable IMAP/POP/SMTP on free accounts.