They’re incredibly arbitrary. Each of them can just be collapsed into “acts of service” an act of service can be a gift, quality time is something that happens alongside the others (and is also something that can be described as a gift) and physical touch is (or should be) quality time.
It was made up by an american pastor to gaslight women, it doesn’t have any basis beyond what he felt like. He made up arbitrary categories that would help him sell his spiel about women listening to men.
Ive made a new category; Being nice. It takes all the other categories. The love languages are now: Being nice.
Pretty easy to make bullets tbh. And honestly I’m pro-gun. Arm the homeless. Arm trans people. Arm migrants.