

You did the right thing, the person was angry with no real outlet for it, so their brain found someone to blame to release that tension. They were not thinking rationally and attempts to argue would have been stonewalled and probably would have escalated things.
This is not a justification for their behaviour, it was despicable and wrong. More so my opinion of why anything other than what you did was correct.
I’m really sorry.




You can also just meet her where she is. The big strength of polyamory is that you don’t need one partner who can fulfil all your needs.
What you have with Sylvia might be referred to as a “comet relationship”. They come around once every now and then, burns hot and bright for a short time and then they leave for a while.
It’s not bad or good, it just is.