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StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 10 months ago

What's the best part of life after 30?

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What's the best part of life after 30?

StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 10 months ago
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  • Melobol@lemmy.ml
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    10 months ago

    You start to develop the ability to not give a fuck.

    • Devadander@lemmy.world
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      10 months ago

      It’s an absolute superpower, too

    • sireuz@sh.itjust.worksdeleted by creator
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      Nah, I’ve turned 30 this year and I already don’t give a fuck and fear nothing. It scares me a little lol

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    You start to form genuine opinions on topics, not just parroting tidbits back to people.

    • otp@sh.itjust.works
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      I don’t think age determines when that happens

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        When? I think you mean “if”.

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        I’d wager a level of maturity and overcoming insecurity is a requirement, which yes some people can achieve at an early age

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          I’ll be honest if they’re talking politically, this still has not happened to me, like sure I have things that I think are right and wrong but I’ve never been super vocal

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          Or never at all! Haha

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        oh? if you say so.

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      Age is definitely not a requirement for this lol

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    I once heard someone say:

    “My teens were my body’s puberty, my twenties were my mind’s puberty. By my thirties I started to have a handle on things.”

    That has really stuck with me. I’ve loved my thirties!

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    For me it was when everything professionally and personally started taking off.

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    I’m in my 40s and, uhhhh…

    Depending on how you’ve played your cards the best part is that you’ve ditched your shitty “friends” and have your 5 or less close friends now.

    You’ve solidified the music you like. The books you care to read.

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  • bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml
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    Finally being able to (mostly) make decisions without undue influence of horniness.

  • Rumo161@feddit.org
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    Calming the fuck down

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    You start to really see who is here for you and who is here just to fuck around. You are surrounded by people who are both and after I hit 30, a lot of it became clearer as to who I should be returning my energy to.

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    Every year is my favorite year. Currently 55. Only reason to go back would be to undo stupid shit i said/did.

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    Finally got my crap together. Career taking off, got rid of my toxic relationships, adopted several cats, getting into really good shape.

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    a few years in my thirties was my best time of life. Was able to afford living near the city which was also near my work. I don’t think that has to do with age though as much as stable employment.

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    Sweet sweet brain maturity

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    Not wanting to go out or be social is more acceptable. Plus more excuses to stay home are available.

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    Closer to being done with all this silliness.

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